Recently, I learned the number one search on pornhub right now is “Ukrainian Girl.”

I was disgusted by this. What does it even mean? Men want to rape “the spoils of war?” They want to fuck women with their empire? Ultimate dominance of the vulnerable? I don’t know.

I don’t watch porn often because when I do, I start up with feminist analysis of it, and that just doesn’t make me feel sexy. My husband has a 70’s porn from Denmark or something called Frisbee Fuckers. It’s pretty fun: it’s full bush action and everyone appears consenting and looks like they’re enjoying themselves. I want to find some feminist porn but it is a pretty low priority. I mean, both my husband and I are on SSRIs, so sex is not as plentiful as it once was. I don’t really even care, it’s just one of those things that isn’t a big part of my life right now.